Saying no to the boss
Start by establishing that you do not want to do it. Say: “I’m sorry.” “I’m uncomfortable.” “It’s not who I am.” “I’ll pass.” “With all due respect, I need/would like to decline. ”Don't say: “I can’t believe you’d suggest I stoop so low.” “That’s unethical.” “You’re wrong to ask me.” “How dare you ask me to do something so sleazy?” Stay on point. Don’t make judgmental statements or let it become a debate about morals. Offer solutions or alternatives, and stick to your guns if you don’t feel right about it.