Getting even
Never hold a grudge… after you've got even. Don’t attribute to malice what can be explained by stupidity. Ask yourself: are you sure she deserves the retaliation? can the offender really be ‘‘taught a lesson’’? will the punishment be proportional to the misdeed? Select from a wide range of retaliations, from cooling off social interactions with her to going truly Machiavellian. Plan your action carefully. Don’t do anything that you may regret later. Avoid hurting innocent bystanders.