Passing the buck
Playing the Blame Game gets you nowhere for it doesn’t aim at constructive resolution of disagreements. Give up your claim that someone always has to be made to pay. Recast responsibility as a way to learn from your mistakes as well as those of others. Accept that we all live in an imperfect world and accidents happen. Try to make things better, acknowledge fallibility as a route toward improvement. Stop blaming people, but defend yourself in case fingers are pointing at you.